Why are there some people that achieve what they want and some that don’t?
This is a question I’ve become obsessed with because if there is a human on this earth driving the car you want, living where you want to live, wearing what you want to wear, looking how you want to look why cant you achieve that?
The truth is we can.
What makes us happy is progress in anyway. For example: I want to lose weight and get in shape so I buy a gym membership (which is progress). Step 2 which is showing up to the gym is where we go wrong.
Why does this happen? Why don’t we follow through?
We all have our own world view shaped from our past experiences. These past experiences shape what we think our true potential is. Lets say you signed up for the gym in the past or you tried a previous diet. You had a bad experience, you failed to show up to the gym, you failed to lose weight on that diet so the next time you sign up for the gym or you try the next diet your world view has already been shaped from these past experiences.
Most of us have a belief which has been shaped from previous experiences about our true potential (what we think he deserve) and that belief effects what kind of action we take, which effects the results we get. Get poor results again and again thats how we start to lack belief in ourselves because we feel nothing we can do ever works which reinforces our potential.
If you believe that theres very little potential for you to lose that 10kg you want in order to fit into your favourite red dress and be more confident, have more energy for your kids then you will take very little action. When you marry little potential with little action you’re going to get little results which results in people failing which continually shapes your belief and world view.
Before anything you must believe you will achieve your result, because when you’re certain that things are going to work (and yes there will be doubt but your belief must be stronger than the doubt) your going to start taking bigger action, when you take bigger action you get great results when you achieve great results you start to believe in yourself more and more! You get momentum!
If you get anything from this please just believe you can. When I had -$8 in my bank account I told Bec I literally sat Bec down and I said that no matter what I would succeed, I couldn’t even pay for ink for a printer I had no right to think anything was possible, I had ZERO equipment, I had ZERO clients, I had no facility, all I had were family and friends to train in local parks. I had an obsession, I was hungry, I was passionate.
How I changed was I got the result in my head first which made me believe that I couldn’t fail. You can practice all you want, gain all the knowledge in the world but if you don’t believe you can get what you desire everything you acquire is useless.
If you believe things wont work for you you’ll be right, If you believe things will work for you you’ll be right.
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