There is nothing wrong in helping yourself feel good by keeping yourself erect, stretching arms up high and wearing something special, whether it be items of clothing, some make-up or a new hairstyle. God wants us to project from our hearts the confidence of His love for us and the fact that each and everyone of us is beautiful to Him. There is nothing wrong in heightening that sense of inner personal beauty with external accessories that give us a boost of confidence. This does not mean we rely on external trappings. Our reliance is in our Lord. 1 Peter 3:3-4 tells us "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment ... Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight".
