In the same way that the word BOW can have more than one interpretational, we need to respect others for their differing opinions, whilst at the same time retaining self-respect for our own opinions. The Holy Spirit can change all of us for the better, but it is not for us to go around changing others. Philippians 2:3-4 tells us "Do nothing from selfih ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others".