Have you been messaging other AB/DLs online and getting few or no responses? Even we message people and don't get responses because maybe we're not their thing. BUT let's evaluate what you're writing, what WE personally respond to and how we can craft interesting messages with intent for a higher probability for someone to respond to!
Livewire25, Baby Donny! and Diaperperv all discuss our "no responses" messages, what gets our attention & what we personally respond to, which is all different and subjective!
Follow Baby Donny! on his twitter
Diaperpervs links are all here
Livewire25 is on fetlife
