This week the guys discuss the theme of life and reality hitting you fast. Is settling down and having children something the black community leave too late compared to other cultures. Have times changed where people in general are being more career driven leaving less time for starting your own family? It is often said that time is a great healer, but the question of revenge is always present. Is it ever worth it? Do we often overlook getting help and going to therapy? Often we associate therapy with victims or ex gang members but does every one in life need to attend some form of therapy to decipher who they are today forming the person they have become? Is there a stigma still attached to this in 2021 and why? The biggest thing usually attached to seeking help is embarrassment, the boys delve in deeper and ask is there a difference between privacy and secrecy? Relationships often suffer because people point to the fact they don’t have enough in common but is this really the key to having a healthy and long lasting relationship? Do we need balance? How far should jobs go regarding leniency when it comes to employees being absent from work due to sickness? Are they entitled to know the ins and outs? No one likes dictator like behaviour and everybody is accountable for their own actions, this raises the question on why the president of Nigeria has decided to ban twitter because of a deleted tweet!? Is there underlying issues or is it just a temper tantrum? We live in the world where not everyone likes the same thing, but XO rightly asks why do people go out of their way to dislike things? Are they doing it to show genuine distaste or do people just like to go against the grain highlighting the element and freedom of difference? Listen to all this in depth on the latest episode of Theninetofivers out on all social and streaming platforms Like, Share & Subscribe!
