Everybody is striving towards success and working hard towards their goals but lets be honest even in the most serious of monk modes, there comes a time when you need to release. How do you ensure your enjoyment is not jeopardising your future? Is it ok when there is no risk to yourself or do you have to be extra careful when you are in a season of building or success? It will be subjective to each person a wrong choice is never really considered a wrong choice until there are dramatically negative consequences. Sexual immorality has caused the destruction of many great men and yet the allure of women has never ceased. Some may argue it is biology but more insidiously it seems to be now wrapped in the idea of manhood. With those who have multiple conquests seemingly rated whilst those who have not shunned and made to feel lesser than. This seems to be encouraged by men consciously and women subconsciously, but a dangerous community has bred of the back of this. The numbers of incels (Involuntary celibates) are rising and there is a proportion of them that have gone on to do heinous acts, is the problem an entitled attitude and misdirected rage or does society have a responsibility to support those that feel lesser than? Nothing worth having comes easy but virtually everything is improvable. It is a message a lot of incels, heck a lot of people don’t sometimes take into consideration but the discipline to execute plans of self-improvement is often where people stumble. Discipline can literally be the difference between freedom and accomplishment or a life of excuses and depression. Choose wisely and be disciplined in your listening of TheNineToFivers Podcast.