No matter your ethnicity or gender, become a student of Black Feminist thought:
Consider getting a copy of Revolutionary Mothering: Love on the Front Lines(edited by Alexis Pauline Gumbs). Follow her @alexispauline
Immerse yourself in the poetry ofAudre Lorde at poetryfoundation.org/poets/audre-lordeand follow the Audre Lorde Project (ALP.org)