Finding Annie: Surviving Narcissism and Abuse
Episode Title: Healing Journey with Michele VrabelHost: AnniGuest: Michele Vrabel, Author of Butterfly Stitches: The Metamorphosis of Healing
Episode Summary
In today's powerful episode, Anni is joined by Michele Vrabel, author of Butterfly Stitches: The Metamorphosis of Healing. Michele shares her moving journey of surviving childhood abuse, navigating trauma, and finding true healing through faith, forgiveness, and resilience. She explains the deeper meaning behind her book’s title and how the metaphor of a "butterfly stitch" perfectly captures the slow, active process of emotional and spiritual healing.
Michele discusses:
The importance of participating actively in your own healing journey
How early childhood insight and faith helped her survive and heal
The powerful, messy, and essential process of forgiveness — for others and for herself
Breaking generational cycles of abuse within her family
The deep emotional cost of unhealed trauma, including her experience with abortion and self-forgiveness
Practical steps for healing, including writing out your story as a form of release
Anni and Michele also dive into why sharing your story is crucial for both personal healing and broader societal change, reminding listeners that vulnerability can be a bridge to freedom.
Key Takeaways
Healing Is a Journey, Not a Moment: True healing requires participation, maintenance, and faith—like tending to a wound with a butterfly stitch.
Forgiveness Is Essential: Forgiving those who hurt us—and forgiving ourselves—is necessary for full healing.
Breaking Cycles: Trauma doesn't have to be repeated. Conscious choice and divine help can break generational patterns.
Sharing Heals: Speaking your truth or writing your story—even if it’s just for yourself—can be a critical first step toward deep healing.
Resources Mentioned
📚 Michele’s Book: Butterfly Stitches: The Metamorphosis of Healinghttps://a.co/d/8NjcWtr
📖 Michele’s upcoming sequel: Outloud: The Sound of Healing (Expected September 2025)
Connect with Michele Vrabel
Instagram: @sweetartbyshelly
Facebook: Michele Vrabel
Website: www.michelevrabel.com
Final Thoughts
If you're feeling weighed down by the pain of your past, Butterfly Stitches will inspire you to believe that healing is possible. Michele’s story is proof that we are not defined by what happened to us, but by how we rise and walk forward in grace and courage.
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