Welcome to the F*ck The Generational Wealth Gap Podcast, Im your host Elyse Alexander. You're go to fam when it comes to creating a wealthy life and getting rid of all the mental baggage that comes with codependency and perfectionism. Its not an easy trip but you bet your ass its worth it and you are worthy of it. One day I will create a business.....
I will be happy when my family is happy....
I remember how all too familiar these statements feel. I used to say them.... frequently.
But I noticed that day never came, so what was I going to do?
I needed to figure out how to do it even if I didn't feel like it.
Today I talk about:
Why is wealth language so important?
Do you ever hear the one day stories come to fruition?
Why one day us the death phrase to six figure earners or above?
Is it possible to enjoy the whole journey?
Why is it important to not look for anything outside of ourselves?
My history with these 2 phrases!
I took years to create an idea for a business. Then when I created the business I took a year to see if I could do it by myself. Business is only a business if there is cash flow. So how long can you go without growth in your business + life?
I never wanted to start until it could be perfect. So guess what I never started. lol
I kept repeating i'll be happy when my family's happy, when my life settles down, when I find that perfect partner, when everyone else is taken care of, when my mother in law leaves me alone.
I realized I was always WAITING. Not gonna lie it built a large amount of Resentment.
If we look outside of ourselves we will continue to create that as a pattern for the rest of ourselves. But if we ask ourselves or ask divine to guide us to the inner answer. We will always feel our worth and our inner connection
Help stopping that negative nancy inside your brain that talks a lot about ONE DAY?
TIP #1
Write down all of your thoughts for a 1 day period. Take a look at your patterns of thinking. No beating yourself up with the shame stick, just awareness.
TIP #2
If you have a sentence coming out of your mouth or that you say in your head that starts with lack. PAUSE. Don't finish the sentence. Again, creating more awareness around how you talk to yourself, others, and what we are bringing into our energy.
TIP #3
Find and surround yourself with people who dream BIGGER than you. You'll start to play all the way to the fences edge and take action faster.
BONUS TIP
Ask yourself is this TRUE?
(Not all thoughts are facts)
EXIT QUESTION:
Are you pushing off or procrastinating your dream to one day because you don't think you can do it, or because the dream is too big?
YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN CREATE WHAT YOU ARE MEANT TO CREATE. NO ONE ELSE. SO IF YOU DON'T SHIFT THE PEOPLE YOUR MEANT TO HELP GO UN-HELPED.
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