Boundaries!
What perspective are we looking through them today? They are fences with gates that allow the good and bad to come out.
This is something that I have only began to implement into my life the last 5 years. The environment I was in growing up didn't teach me this foundational concept because they didn't have them either. We cannot teach what we don't have within ourselves first.
I had come to a point in my walk with Christ that I was burned out and struggling with what I was responsible for and what my role was. I was worrying about what was happening with others more than what was happening inside of me. For years I had been taught to deny myself and I was doing that in the most extreme and destructive ways to myself.
Boundaries changed that all for me tho!
The book Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud changed my life.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who is seeking to establish who they are in relationship to other people.
Let's define what a boundary is.
A boundary is a combination of what you say yes and no too; it's a combination of the choices you make that shape your life.
It's really self control in action.
This is something that is developed overtime and lots of factors need to be discussed so this can be done with confidence.
Let's jump into the episode so we can get ourselves established from the rest of the world in only a way that YOU can.
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