Like the late Soulja Slim said, "if i gotta beat em, iont need em"
Dudes will say, “when i met her she wasn’t like that, then she changed”, and that to me only shows the mans incompetence. He should have an understanding that when he meets a woman he isn’t really meeting her he is meeting her representative. Most of these women are actress, bald headed liars, that wear customs and make up and misrepresent themselves to you on the first few dates to reel you in. You don’t really get to know a woman until you move in with her or have a child with her. Thats when she shows her true colors an who she really is. The first time she talks back to you or says something disrespect and you don’t check it then thats your fault. And if you do check it and it continues then its still your fault because you made that decision to stay.