I try to take care of my stuff. It drives my wife crazy. If I buy it for myself it's because I need to or want to use it. Small things that I use to bring me joy. Earbuds, ball caps, pens. Small things that I use for fun or entertainment.
There are certain things that my kids know they can’t touch. These things are mine. They have their things, we have out things and I have my things. And my things are my things.
