God's providence is presented as an overarching governance that extends even to the difficult realities of broken families and human disobedience. While family sorrows are recognized as deeply painful, the belief in God's sovereignty offers hope by assuring that He is in control, unlike chaotic forces. Jesus himself predicted that following him would lead to division within families, highlighting the disruptive nature of the gospel.
The disobedience of figures like Eli's sons and King Rehoboam are attributed to God's sovereign will, not excusing their actions but indicating God's ultimate purpose in these events. In the case of Eli's sons, their refusal to heed warnings was because "it was the will of the Lord to put them to death," and God chose not to grant them repentance. Similarly, Rehoboam's foolish decisions leading to the kingdom's division were part of God's plan.
Repentance is consistently presented as a gift from God, which He sovereignly grants or withholds. The example of Tyre and Sidon illustrates that Jesus knew what would lead them to repent, yet those means were not provided, emphasizing God's authority over repentance. Despite this sovereignty, there is hope for unbelieving family members because God has the power to change hearts.
David's understanding of Shimei's cursing exemplifies the belief in God's providence in hardship. David saw God's hand in the cursing, even while acknowledging Shimei's sinfulness. The troubles within David's own family after his sin with Bathsheba were also understood as divine judgment within God's providential plan. Ultimately, the concept of God's providence, while sometimes difficult to grasp, offers believers a foundation of hope and endurance amidst family struggles, rooted in the assurance of God's ultimate control and steadfast love.
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