Description

In this week’s AMA, Kyira answers a listener who’s realized their planning often comes at the cost of being present. Many of us over-plan not because we love control, but because control feels safe — it helps us avoid the shame of things going wrong.

Kyira breaks down how to shift from planning as protection to planning as preparation, using simple mindset and body-based tools to help you stop over-orchestrating and start living the moments you work so hard to create.

💡 Key Takeaways

• Planning is often a nervous system strategy for safety, not just a skill.
• Set a “done” point to help transition from preparing to participating.
• Presence is a muscle built through small rituals and conscious permission.
• Discomfort is part of connection — not a sign you failed to plan enough.
• Joy and meaning live in participation, not perfection.

🗣️ Submit Your Question

Have a question you’d like Kyira to explore in a future AMA episode? Submit it at adversityrising.com/podcast.