In this episode, Kyira Wackett and Janice Holland explore the theme of hiding and the pressure to perform in society. They discuss the origins of this pressure and how it perpetuates shame and inauthenticity. They also delve into the hidden realities we often keep to ourselves and the toll it takes on our well-being. The conversation highlights the importance of breaking free from oppressive expectations and embracing authenticity and self-acceptance. The episode emphasizes the need to untangle ourselves from shame and live our truth. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Janice Holland discuss the challenges of breaking free from performing and hiding to live authentically. They explore the fear of being seen and the discomfort of vulnerability. They emphasize the importance of radical acceptance and the willingness to sit with discomfort in order to discover one's true self. They also discuss the need for receptivity and the ability to receive support and help from others. Janice Holland offers a 90-day journey for women ready to come into their own and live authentically.
Takeaways
- There is an overwhelming pressure in society to perform and present a perfect image, which perpetuates shame and inauthenticity.
- Hiding our true selves and burying our realities that don't fit societal expectations can lead to feelings of emptiness, disconnection, and frustration.
- Breaking free from oppressive expectations and embracing authenticity and self-acceptance is essential for mental and emotional well-being.
- Hiding and performing are not just about external behaviors but also internal experiences and emotions.
- It takes courage to expose our true selves and be vulnerable, but it is necessary for genuine connection and personal growth. Breaking free from performing and hiding requires recognizing the fear of being seen and the discomfort of vulnerability.
- Radical acceptance is key to living authentically and embracing the unpredictability of human existence.
- Receptivity is important for creating balance and allowing others to support and nurture us.
- Seeking support and help from others is not a sign of weakness but a necessary part of the journey towards authenticity.
- Janice Holland offers a 90-day journey for women to discover their true selves and live authentically.
More About Janice:
Janice is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) Supervisor and a Certified Trauma Model Therapist. She teaches and trains therapists and coaches on how to effectively work with complex trauma and runs a trauma recovery membership called The Courageous Woman.
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Chapters
- 00:00 Introduction: The Pressure to Perform
- 05:51 Why Do We Hide?
- 10:09 The Impact of Hiding on Mental and Emotional Well-being
- 15:46 The Awakening: Breaking Free from Hiding
- 20:12 The Importance of Pursuing Authenticity and Self-Acceptance
- 23:22 The Power of Being Present and Connected
- 26:30 The Fear of Letting Go of Hiding
- 29:01 Living a Life of Authenticity and Courage
- 32:22 Challenges of Vulnerability
- 37:48 The Power of 'I Don't Know'
- 48:07 Receptivity and Support
- 53:09 Shifting Perspectives and Finding Center
- 55:03 The Journey Towards Authenticity
