We don't just collect STUFF... we collect memories. Useless memories! Trivia. Directions to places we will never go to. We have this collection of memories that if someone pushes the right button, we slide right into. Some are good. Some are not. In fact, we remember stuff we did that we'd really like to forget. We have memory triggers that instantly flood us with regret, shame and sadness. Purging the grudge box... the best thing we can do for ourselves and those around you to have a great 2020!