Have you ever attempted to raise concerns about a pastor’s behavior, and were completely shut down by some phrase like, “he’s the pastor, God will straighten him out if he needs it”? In this episode, Justin and Tiffany unpack how high-control churches silence accountability and protect abusive leadership. They expose the misuse of “touch not mine anointed” and “accuser of the brethren,” as well as clarify the true difference between slander and Godly discernment. They also respond to accusations that they’re “debating recordings” or misrepresenting the church by showcasing and analyzing sermon videos. If you've ever felt afraid to speak up, this episode is your reminder: it is not wrong to confront or hold church leaders accountable. In fact, believers have a biblical call to expose the unfruitful works of darkness publicly, so that all may hear.
As for those who persist in sin, rebuke them in the presence of all, so that the rest may stand in fear. - 1 Timothy 5:20 ESV
Last Week:
Pentecost’s Purpose: How the UPCI Twists Acts 2 to Justify Spiritual Drunkenness - EP81
Playlists:
Show Links:
The Untouchable Pastor Myth: A Breakdown of ‘Touch Not Mine Anointed’ - EP69
Jason Varnum - “you mess with me”
Julie Roys - Restore Conference 2025
Nathaniel Haney - “the pastor’s not perfect”
Nathaniel Urshan - “I’m the pastor of this church”
Nathaniel Urshan - “I stomp on internet trolls”
Rod Parsley - “you better get off the internet”
Raymond Woodward - “slander is not a false report”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
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