Feeling emotionally drained or disconnected in your relationships? This powerful habit might be the missing link. In this week’s episode, Harvard-educated author Bracha Goetz shares how joy and gratitude helped her heal from addiction, rebuild trust, and transform relationships — from the inside out.
Bracha has written over 45 children’s books and a deeply honest memoir about overcoming inner emptiness. Her message is simple but life-changing: when we build habits of gratitude, we don’t just feel better — we relate better. We become more present, more connected, and more resilient.
💡 What you’ll learn:
✔️ Why early gratitude habits are the foundation of relational resilience
✔️ The neuroscience of joyful repetition (and how to use it!)
✔️ How to transform cynicism, pain, and disconnection into hope
✔️ Why The 4 Habits are all gratitude exercises in disguise
✔️ The power of playful parenting and boundaries that build trust
✔️ How to stay grounded in gratitude — even in a war zone
Whether you’re rebuilding your inner world or raising kids with healthy habits, this episode will inspire you to reconnect with joy, purpose and people.
⏱️ EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 | Welcome to Bracha Goetz from Israel
00:28 | A Harvard-educated author with 45+ children’s books
02:10 | From Ivy League ambition to spiritual awakening
04:30 | Addiction as spiritual hunger — and the road to healing
07:30 | Why gratitude is the habit that changes everything
10:00 | “The Mother Who Always Said Yes” — setting joyful boundaries
13:20 | All 4 Habits are gratitude habits!
17:30 | The inner voice of lack — and how to silence it
20:50 | If they’re abusive, get out. But otherwise: express appreciation
23:40 | The orange analogy: Infinite gift in your hand
26:00 | Daily gratitude rituals from ancient wisdom
28:40 | The Pleasure Ladder — 5 levels of lasting joy
35:00 | Gratitude even in captivity: lessons from hostages
39:00 | From Harvard to healing: redefining success
43:00 | Forgiveness, compassion, and protecting your peace
45:00 | Final encouragement: “You were blind — now you can see”
✅ NEXT STEPS
📍 Connect with Bracha Goetz
– Website: https://www.growingimpactpublications.com
– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brachagoetz
– Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brachagoetzbooks
– Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BrachaGoetzBooks
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