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In this episode, host Carole Leathem interviews Jen Babakhan, author of the book 'Disrupted: Finding Peace with a Parent's Terminal Illness.'

Jen shares her personal experience of her mother's terminal illness and how it turned her world upside down.

She talks about the importance of finding strength in Jesus and relying on His presence during difficult times.

Jen also discusses the steps she took to care for her mom, including getting a second opinion and utilizing palliative and hospice care.

The conversation touches on the topics of grief and the need for resources and support for those walking through a similar journey.

In this conversation, Carole and Jen discuss the experience of caring for a terminally ill parent.

They talk about the mixture of grief and anxiety that comes with knowing the end is near, and the importance of being present in the moment.

They also discuss the challenges of helping children navigate grief and loss, and the importance of self-care during the caregiving journey.

Jen shares her own experiences and offers insights and advice for others going through similar situations.

Takeaways:

• Finding peace in the midst of a parent's terminal illness is possible through relying on Jesus and His strength.

• Getting a second opinion and exploring different treatment options can provide hope and potentially extend a loved one's life.

• Palliative and hospice care can be valuable resources for both the patient and the caregiver.

• Grief is a natural response to a terminal illness, and it is important to acknowledge and process these emotions.

• There is a need for more resources and support for individuals who are currently caring for a parent with a terminal illness.

• Caring for a terminally ill parent involves a mixture of grief and anxiety about the future.

• Being present in the moment and focusing on small moments of joy can help navigate the journey.

• Helping children navigate grief and loss requires honesty, validation of their emotions, and creating new traditions and memories.

• Self-care is essential for caregivers to maintain their own well-being and continue providing care.

• Exercise, movement, and finding moments of relaxation can be helpful self-care practices.

• Having faith and leaning on a higher power can provide comfort and strength during difficult times.

• Processing Grief and Emotions

• The Need for Resources and Support Finding Comfort in Faith

• Being Present in the Moment

• "I was not strong enough for that, but Jesus is strong enough for that."

• "I am going to live right now in this moment because this moment is all I'm guaranteed."

• "We were given that six weeks and God gave us another almost three years."

• "Our human minds want to go forward because we think it's going to protect us."

• "We were never going back."

• "That's a hard, hard thing. And there's no way through that but through it."

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:09 The Shocking Diagnosis and Turning Point

06:22 Finding Strength in Jesus

10:37 Navigating the Journey of Caregiving

13:02 The Importance of Second Opinions and Treatment Options

15:26 Understanding Palliative and Hospice Care

19:01 The Need for Resources and Support

19:29 Being Present in the Moment

20:06 Helping Children Navigate Grief and Loss

20:55 The Importance of Self-Care

25:29 Exercise and Movement as Self-Care

27:25 Finding Comfort in Faith

Connect with Jen:

Website: www.JenBabakhan.com

Social Media:

Instagram: @JenBabakhan

Facebook:@JenBabakhanauthor

Book: https://www.amazon.com/Disrupted-Finding-parents-terminal-illness/dp/1962705056

Connect with Carole:

Website - https://www.thecaretakersjourney.com/

Social Media - 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/carolesjourney/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/carolesjourney

Book - https://www.carolesjourney.com/book