Podcast Description
In this episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons, Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai welcome relationship and marriage expert Larry Bilotta, known for helping individuals navigate midlife crises and rebuild marriages from the brink of divorce. Drawing from his personal experience in a turbulent 27-year marriage followed by transformation in its 28th, Larry shares his philosophy that “it starts and ends with you.”
He explains how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, introducing concepts like the mirror effect, where partners reflect each other’s subconscious energies, and the chaos-to-purpose scale, a tool he uses to help clients understand emotional programming. Larry describes how shifting from the “world of fear” to the “world of love” changes not just relationships but internal peace itself.
Through practical frameworks such as creating personal “fear and love word lists” and understanding the seven invisible energies that flow through relationships, Larry illustrates how one person can heal a marriage by transforming their inner environment. The conversation also explores midlife crises, emotional projection, and the distinction between reacting and creating love in real time.
Listeners will leave this episode with grounded insight into self-awareness, compassion, and emotional responsibility, tools to navigate relationships with greater understanding and intention.
Guest Bio
Larry Bilotta is a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker with over two decades of experience helping people navigate midlife crises and rebuild relationships on the brink of divorce. After enduring 27 years in a turbulent marriage and transforming it in its 28th, he developed his signature approach focused on changing the environment of the mind. Larry teaches how childhood experiences shape adult love and how lasting change begins within. His work has guided thousands toward healing, emotional awareness, and renewed connection.
Guest Links
Website:
SaveThisMarriage.com
LarryBilotta.com.
Instagram: @larrybilotta
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