Description

Summary

In this episode, Rita Maria Hernandez and Carmen discuss the differences between correction and discipline in parenting. They emphasize the importance of a strong relationship with your child and the need for authenticity and apologizing when mistakes are made. They also highlight the significance of believing in your child and yourself as a parent. The conversation explores the role of natural consequences and the importance of labeling behavior rather than labeling the child. They provide guidelines for effective discipline and discuss the importance of building behaviors and establishing expectations. The episode concludes with a discussion on seeking expert advice when needed.

Recommended Book:

Discipline with Love And Logic - by Jim Fay (Author), Foster W. Cline (Author)

Takeaways

• Building a strong relationship with your child is essential for effective discipline.
• Correction focuses on teaching and training, while discipline focuses on building character and establishing boundaries.
• Believe in your child's ability to learn and grow, and believe in yourself as a parent.
• Use natural consequences and avoid labeling your child's behavior as part of their identity.
• Seek support from a circle of trusted friends and mentors, and be open to seeking expert advice when needed.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Context

03:12 Understanding the Three Types of People

04:34 The Goal of Parenting: Growing in Wisdom

06:55 Correction vs Discipline

08:21 The Importance of a Strong Relationship

12:36 Being Authentic and Apologizing

15:05 Believing in Your Child and Yourself

17:33 Natural Consequences and Labeling Behavior

21:33 The Importance of a Supportive Circle

25:55 Guidelines for Effective Discipline

29:28 Understanding Correction and Discipline

33:25 Correction and Discipline in Daily Routines

37:29 Building Behaviors and Establishing Expectations

40:00 Looking Ahead and Seeking Expert Advice