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In this inspiring episode of Talks with Dr Shafer, Dr. Shafer welcomes Special Guest and Calm Parenting Advocate Kirk Martin. Kirk Martin is the Founder of CalmParenting.com and the inspiring host of the podcast Calm Parenting, where he helps parents to work towards parenting in a calm and centered manner. Dr Shafer and Kirk Martin discuss effective parenting strategies for managing strong-willed children, elaborating on the differences between a childhood meltdown and tantrum and how to approach these behaviors to help kids learn to navigate their emotions and come back to a place of calm and connection. Dr Shafer and Kirk Martin also discuss the importance of emotional regulation and fostering connection over correction. Kirk shares personal experiences and practical techniques that empower parents to navigate challenging behaviors while maintaining a supportive environment. The discussion emphasizes the significance of humility, realistic expectations, and building a community of support for parents. Dr Shafer shares her family's secret for a "reset" in times of conflict and disconnection.

Takeaways:

• Strong-willed children can teach parents about their own triggers and areas for personal development.
• Using physical activities can help redirect children's energy during meltdowns.
• It's important to validate children's feelings rather than dismiss them.
• Setting realistic expectations for children's behavior can reduce frustration for parents.
• Humility in parenting allows for growth and connection with children.
• Creating opportunities for connection can help diffuse tense situations.
• Building a supportive community can help parents feel less isolated in their parenting challenges.

Sound Bites:

• "Motion changes emotion."
• "Kids are supposed to be impulsive."
• "Let's all reset."

Thank you to Kirk Martin for being on the show!

You Can Connect with Kirk Martin, Founder of CelebrateCalm.com, at ⁠www.CelebrateCalm.com⁠

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Dr Shafer Stedron, MD is a musician turned Neurologist, a mom, a Jay Shetty-Certified Life Coach, an Author, Publisher, and so much more. She is passionate about helping others reclaim their stories and build their most beautiful future, unlocking their fullest potential informed by her background in neurology, psychology, business and entertainment.

Released January 2025, Dr Shafer co-authors the Cracking the Rich Code 16th Edition, endorsed by Tony Robbins. Order your copy at ⁠⁠www.drshaferstedronova.com⁠⁠!

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This episode does not offer individualized medical advice. Opinions discussed are for informational purposes only, and should not be considered medical advice.

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Music Credit: Impulse, Shafer Yost