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Trigger Warning: Femicide, Homicide, Domestic Violence are discussed in this episode.

In this engaging guest episode on Talks with Dr Shafer, Dr. Shafer welcomes Special Guest Clare Laxton, Host of Killer in the Family, Advocate for victims of femicide and domestic violence whose research on femicide and the Criminal Justice system in the UK is helping us better understand the risks for femicide and how we can respond to signs to help prevent future tragedies. Dr Shafer and Clare Laxton delve into the critical issues surrounding domestic abuse, particularly focusing on coercive control as a seed for future abuse and violence. Clare shares her extensive experience in the charity sector, advocating for victims and raising awareness about the dangers of coercive control. Dr Shafer and Clare Laxton discuss alarming statistics regarding femicide, the barriers victims face in reporting abuse, and the importance of professional training in recognizing and responding to domestic violence. They also explore the empowering role of physical activity for women, the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on domestic violence rates, and the need for advocacy and storytelling to drive change in societal attitudes towards abuse.

Takeaways:

• Coercive control is a significant risk factor for domestic homicide and domestic violence.
• The most dangerous time for women is when they leave an abusive relationship.
• Awareness of coercive control is crucial for prevention.
• Creating safe spaces for victims is essential for support.
• Over 51,000 women and girls were killed by family members in 2023.
• Physical activity can empower women and reclaim their autonomy.
• Employers have a role in supporting victims of domestic abuse.
• Isolation can exacerbate domestic violence situations.
• Awareness and training for professionals are crucial in addressing domestic abuse.
• Storytelling can be a powerful tool for advocacy and change.

Thank you to Carrie Bower for being a guest on the show! 

Connect with Clare Laxton on her website here: 

clarelaxtonconsults.co.uk

Listen to Clare Laxton on the Killer in the Family Podcast on Spotify and wherever you enjoy podcasts: 

https://open.spotify.com/show/7N2MJbfns5w7DvM8Pnvy0m?si=8422317180df48bf

Connect with Clare Laxton on LinkedIn:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/clare-laxton-003bb937/and

Instagram: 

@Ladylaxton

Are you a victim of domestic violence?

If you are in danger, call 9-1-1 or your country's emergency number and get help. 

You matter, and you deserve to be safe.

 National Domestic Violence Hotline Information: https://www.thehotline.org/

1-800-799-SAFE

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Dr Shafer Stedron, MD is a musician turned Neurologist, a mom, a Jay Shetty-Certified Life Coach, an Author, Publisher, and so much more. She is passionate about helping others reclaim their stories and build their most beautiful future, unlocking their fullest potential informed by her background in neurology, psychology, business and entertainment.

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Music Credit: Shafer Yost, Impulse