In this episode of Therapist in Your Ear, we will dive into the world of kindergarten crushes. When her young daughter announced she was getting married—to a fellow kindergartener—Jamie took it as an opportunity to explore what these early "relationships" really mean.
She reassures parents that young children expressing interest in having a “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” is a completely normal part of social and emotional development. Kids naturally experiment with relationship roles through play, such as pretending to be parents or assigning family roles to their friends. These early interactions help them build empathy, social skills, and communication.
Jamie offers practical tips for parents to navigate these moments with curiosity and openness. She discusses the importance of asking thoughtful questions, following children’s lead, and creating a safe space for conversations—without teasing or overreacting. She also highlights how modeling healthy relationships at home can shape children’s understanding of love, friendship, and boundaries.
Tune in for a lighthearted yet insightful discussion, perfect for parents wondering how to approach their little one’s first “relationship.”
