Society shames women who have kids and are not in a relationship by using the phrase single mum which is 9/10 used in a negative way. Women with kids everywhere are trying their best and do not need the extra negativity from society looking down on them. Let's build more positive role models and stop making single women with kids look unpleasant. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me