Jillian from Colorado and Shervin discuss the challenges and experiences of dating and relationships. They emphasize the importance of authenticity and being open about the struggles and imperfections in life. They also explore the facade of online dating and the impact it can have on mental health. The conversation delves into the complexities of co-parenting with an ex and the dynamics of toxic relationships. They discuss the healing process after divorce and the importance of emotional intelligence in building healthy relationships. The conversation concludes with a discussion on overcoming fear, embracing vulnerability, and the challenges of long-distance relationships. The conversation explores various aspects of dating and relationships, including physical attraction, chemistry, personality traits, and attachment styles. The speakers discuss the importance of independence, emotional intelligence, and shared interests in a partner. They also share their experiences with approaching and meeting new people. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating online dating and the need for clear communication and honesty in defining relationship expectations. Overall, the speakers emphasize the importance of self-growth, learning from past experiences, and being open to new possibilities in dating. In this conversation, Jillian and Shervin discuss various aspects of dating and relationships. They touch on the importance of being open-minded and not being too picky about physical attributes. They also talk about the dating scene in Monument, Colorado, and share their Thursday night plans. The conversation explores the idea of choosing wisely when approaching multiple people and being compassionate with those who have recently gone through a breakup. They also share their favorite songs by Tyler Childers and Mandisa. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of being open, honest, and compassionate in the dating world.