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This episode does contain conversation with suicidal tendencies. If you or anyone you know that has suicidal thoughts, please seek immediate, professional help.
Selma from Redwood City, California opens up about her past traumas, including experiences of abuse, miscarriages, and toxic relationships. She shares her journey of healing and self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of self-kindness and patience. Selma also discusses her hopes for finding a meaningful connection with someone who values her for who she is. The conversation touches on the challenges of modern dating and the need for genuine connections. In this conversation, Selma and Shervin discuss their experiences with online dating and the challenges they have faced. They talk about the importance of authenticity and communication in relationships, as well as the need for deeper connections beyond physical attraction. They also touch on the topic of ethical non-monogamy and the changing dynamics of modern dating. Selma shares some humorous and frustrating dating stories, highlighting the importance of respect and kindness in interactions.