First Robert John Hadfield discusses the concept of "thick and mystic," which is centered around the idea of change and how individuals respond to it. The speaker explains that there are two types of changes: those that are forced upon us and those we initiate ourselves. The key to success and happiness, according to the speaker, lies in how we react to self-initiated changes, similar to how we react to changes that are forced upon us.
RJH then talks about inspirational stories, philosophies, and ideas that aid in effectively responding to any kind of change, especially the changes we choose to make in our lives. The challenge highlighted is maintaining the energy and commitment to continue with a self-initiated change, particularly when the initial emotional drive fades.
A significant part of the discussion is dedicated to Earl Nightingale, a philosopher and motivational speaker. The speaker recalls Nightingale’s life-changing realization after reading Napoleon Hill, specifically the idea that "you become what you think about." This realization led Nightingale to success despite his challenging upbringing, as he wrote and recorded various materials on achieving success and making money.
Earl Nightingale’s definition of success as "the progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal" is emphasized. He believed that success is an ongoing journey rather than a destination, and every step towards a goal constitutes success.
RJH references Wilfred Peterson, a respected 20th-century writer known for his poem "The Art of Marriage." Peterson’s work, "The Art of Success," is shared, defining success as doing things one should and avoiding what one shouldn't, encompassing all aspects of life and personality. Success is seen as a continual growth, a journey rather than a final destination.
Reflecting on personal experiences, including a failed attempt at becoming a rock star, the speaker relates to the idea of success as a continuum. Observations are made on various levels of success in the music industry, from Taylor Swift's immense success to the speaker's own achievements and those who never made it as far.
The discussion concludes by reiterating that success is a journey and about continual progress towards a goal. It involves recognizing and appreciating one's achievements and continuing to strive for improvement. The speaker echoes Oprah Winfrey's sentiment that finding and aligning one's talents and passions with service to others is the path to true success and fulfillment.
