Sex & creativity isnโt just connected, itโs the same energy expressed in different ways.
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๐ข๐ฟ๐ถ๐ด๐ถ๐ป ๐ฆ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐
Sophie is a sex life coach and a workplace culture consultant. The founder of Sex & Soulย &ย Ordinarily Different Ltd as well as running a burlesque school helping others step into and own their sexual energy.
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๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ & ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐
We talk about how sex is in everything we do, think and feel even if we donโt acknowledge it. The energy of creation, connection, and releasing. How our sacral chakra is both our sex centre and our creative centre.
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๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐น ๐๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ
We unpack the creative journey in the work sense alongside the dating journey.
๐ ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ (๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ = ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด)
How finding clients and dating both relate in terms of building connections and finding alignment. The importance of first impressions and energetic attraction, seeing trust and curiosity as the foundation of any great relationship.
๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ (๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ = ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฆ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด)
Sex in its primal sense is for procreation and for pleasure. Acknowledging everyone has their own flavours, itโs the same energy we are using when we are in a state of flow.
๐ฅ๐ฒ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ (๐๐ฎ๐๐ป๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐/๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ = ๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ต)
Releasing creative work into the world can feel vulnerable. We talk about the importance of aftercare, integration and checking in as the relationship or business grows.
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๐ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ผ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ & ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฝ๐
๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ & ๐๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ
We talk about creating psychological safety, continuous dialogue, and care throughout the creative journey.
๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐
Sex is most commonly linked to physical intimacy but there is energetic intimacy.
๐๐ผ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ & ๐๐น๐ผ๐
Knowing where we can go and where we canโt. Building a culture of trust in both work & personal relationships.
๐๐๐ผ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ด๐ป๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป
Just as relationships require tending to stay alive, so does creativity. Checking in with creative desires like we check in with sexual desires.
๐ง๐ฎ๐น๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐
Talking about sex is one of the most challenging yet liberating conversations we can have. How societal shame around sex translates into creative blocks. The importance of curiosity over performance (in both sex & creative work).
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Sex & creativity are two sides of the same coin when you embrace one, you free the other transforming how you show up in the world.
How can you step further into your sexual energy to fuel your work & personal relationships?
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This was recorded at Your Away Day byย โ Joel Lawtonโ . Resonating with the episode, a day where Joel encourages people to lean into being over doing.
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