What happens when you spend your life pretending everything’s fine?
Matt Ebbage opens up about the pressure to suppress anything that wasn’t “positive” how that led to years of anger and self-doubt, and the slow, uncomfortable process of facing it all
What we discuss:
Toxic positivity: The hidden damage of suppressing emotions to keep up appearances.
The overthinking spiral: Why Matt always second-guessed himself and how therapy shifted his mindset.
Anger and shame: Unpacking the emotional baggage he didn’t realize he was carrying.
The kindness gap: Why being nicer to yourself feels impossible at first—and how he’s learning to do it.
Breaking the mould: How letting go of old friendships and identities helped him move forward.
This isn’t a conversation about easy solutions.
It’s about breaking free from toxic patterns, confronting the truth, and learning to live without the mask. For anyone who’s ever felt “not good enough,” this one’s for you.
Guest:
https://www.instagram.com/mebbstagram https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-ebbage-545a5657
https://www.mattebbage.com
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Host: Mira Magecha
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Creative Director: Alex Payne
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Editor: Josh Partridge
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Music: Jay Witsey
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Studio: Podcast House
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