In “The Things I Didn’t Say,” Harley unpacks the quiet months — the ones filled with background sadness, heavy masking, and the exhaustion that sits behind her smile. She opens up about staying silent when the world, work, school, and the people around her made it easier to swallow her truth than speak it.
This episode explores grief, burnout, the ache of feeling out of place, and the loneliness that lingers even in crowded rooms. Harley shares how music became her language when words failed, how joining a chorus helped her reclaim her voice, and how she’s learning to exist in a world that asks Black women to be everything except tired.
This is an intimate, unfiltered look at the things she never said out loud — until now.
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