In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan welcomes parenting coach Sara Cole to discuss the unique challenges and joys of adoptive parenting. Sara shares her personal journey as a mother to both biological and adopted children, emphasizing the importance of attachment in parenting. She reflects on her experiences with traditional parenting guides and how they often fail to address the complexities of adoption. The conversation delves into the significance of understanding attachment, especially in transracial adoption, and the need for adoptive parents to create supportive environments for their children. Sara also explains the stages of attachment and how they play a crucial role in fostering healthy relationships within families. Sara & Rebecca explore the complexities of parenting, particularly in the context of adoption. They discuss the importance of psychological intimacy, the concept of 'collecting' children to build connection, and the role of mindfulness in parenting. Sara emphasizes the need for parents to rediscover their confidence and understand their children's unique needs, especially in the face of grief and loss.
Important Links
Siegel’s Mindsight Institute
Chapters
00:00 Celebrating Small Wins in Parenting
01:53 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast
03:16 Sarah Cole's Journey into Adoption Coaching
05:08 Parenting Philosophy: Breaking the Cycle
12:21 Understanding the Complexities of Adoptive Parenting
14:04 The Impact of Attachment on Adoptive Children
17:54 Navigating Transracial Adoption
21:35 The Importance of Attachment in Parenting
24:54 Stages of Attachment Development
35:26 Transforming Parent-Child Relationships
39:18 Mindfulness in Parenting
43:39 Rediscovering Parental Confidence
50:16 Navigating Grief and Loss in Adoption
56:50 Practical Mindfulness Techniques
01:02:05 Advice for Adoptive Parents
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