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WE DO NOT GET TO JUDGE. ❤️

There are a few things we get to do by following along someone’s life journey in real life or on social media with the access we have into each other’s worlds and realities:

1. You get to be inspired by acts they are pursuing to do it for your own self.


2. You get to discover ways of living, life hacks, advice that you otherwise would not be exposed to in your current life situation surrounded by your physical environment.


3. You get to hear their opinions when you solicit and choose to hear them so that it can serve your own needs.

There are also a few things we do not get to do by following along someone’s life journey in real life or on social media. These are universal rules.

1. You do not get to judge someone else’s balance.


2. You do not get to judge someone else’s priorities.


3. You do not get to judge someone else’s life when the judgment, advice, criticism was not solicited. Why would this be assumed to be heeded?

The next time you feel the urge to offer someone advice (constructive or not), first consider a few things:

1. If it was solicited and will be sincerely heeded (asked for and will be taken to heart to do something with it).


2. If it will serve them (compliments, encouragement, and support 100% of the time do so, less often do insults, discouragement, and criticism).


3. If this is the best use of your own time and energy because this is taking away from your own progress towards your own potential. Hopefully it is well worth it.


4. How you would feel if someone gave you the same advice. Placing yourself in their shoes may make you reconsider.

How we judge others is typically derived from how we judge and compare ourselves.

How we judge and compare ourselves is typically derived from how we have been judged and compared by others.

How you break this cycle is understanding you are actually a good person, the best person, and are capable of doing anything you set your mind to and find enjoyment and happiness from.

This stems from a condition to receive support or judgment growing up. How you change this into believing you are not that person who once received judgements, comparisons, criticism is by doing hard things now to prove you are no longer that person. You have created an entirely new form. Someone you were always destined to become. These temporarily, subjectively bad things you heard in your head were actually just cues to guide you into position towards your potential to become objectively and permanently good things.

So welcome them if and when they come. They may not be so bad after all.

MUCH LOVE!❤️

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