What does it really take to support an NFL coach on the rise? In this heartfelt and revealing
episode, Stacey Lynn sits down with dear friend, Kristin Weaver, from their days with the Jets to pull back the curtain on the unique life of a coach's wife. Her husband, Anthony Weaver, is the defensive coordinator for the Miami Dolphins.
From navigating the nerve-wracking interview process for a head coaching job to the small, daily rituals that keep their connection strong, this conversation is a masterclass in love, support, and communication.
Join us as we explore the power of the "NFL sisterhood," a unique support system of women who truly understand the pressures and perks of this demanding lifestyle. Our guest shares her personal strategies for staying connected with her husband during the grueling season, including her "rocks and pebbles" approach to communication and the importance of giving him space to decompress. Plus, you won't want to miss the sweet story behind the pregame kiss that has become their special tradition. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the strong women behind the NFL's biggest names.
Key Topics Discussed in This Episode:
- The Power of the NFL Sisterhood:
- This lifestyle is unique, and having a team of women who "get it" is crucial for support.
- The sisterhood provides a network of friends you can lean on, vent to, and who see your greatness even when you might forget it yourself.
- It's a bond where you don't have to talk every day, but you know help is just a phone call away, especially during big moments like a win, a firing, or a move.
- The idea of an annual gathering for coaches' wives to fellowship and reconnect is also discussed.
- Supporting a Rising Star Coach:
- Navigating the highs and lows of the head coaching interview process.
- Trusting in "divine time" and knowing the right opportunity will come when it's meant to be.
- The value of holding down the home front so their husbands can thrive in their careers. It's the small, consistent acts of service, like having ice water by the bed, that can mean the world.
- Keeping the Connection Strong During the Season:
- Communication is everything. The key is learning when to talk about certain things.
- A great tip: Give your husband 10 minutes to decompress when he gets home from a 16-hour day before bringing up household issues.
- The "Rocks and Pebbles" method: Differentiating between minor issues ("pebbles") that can wait and major issues ("rocks") that need to be addressed, including your own feelings. Some things get saved until the off-season.
- The Little Rituals That Matter Most:
- Our guest shares the heartwarming story of her husband, Anthony, blowing her a kiss before every single game—a small moment of connection that means everything.
- Even when they're incredibly busy, quick FaceTime calls or simple "love you" texts help them stay connected.
- The focus is on quality over quantity when it comes to time spent together during the season.
