We all have to deal with people and situations in our lives which seem out of control. Sometimes, these situations can get out of hand and build up a response in our minds which create tremendous amounts of anxiety for us. Many times, a person may not be able to correctly diagnose the problem and fix it; however, generally, it's a problem of expectations being too different from what your reality is. Instead of attempting to control people and events, seek to control your own self illusions about reality and correct them to meet reality. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't shoot for your goals; rather, it means that you should be aware of how your reality is presently and be at peace while you focus on execution towards your goals. Letting go of the guilt of not being the perfect this or that is the only way to move forward in any meaningful way.
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