This episode is near and dear to our hearts. We discuss reparenting, while parenting, and how we can give our kids the safest version of us as we heal. We challenge the culture's parenting norms that have been passed down through generations. We talk about how we can parent in a way that mitigates trauma, giving our kids childhoods they don't reel from. We share personal stories of parenting and being parented, and how we journeying through healing in both spaces. Our heart is to shed light on ways we handle our children that we may not realize are contributing to damaging beliefs they will hold on to as the grow. We remind ourselves that we are parenting our kids for adulthood, and that motivation produces different parenting behaviors than the goal of having well-controlled kids. We believe this episode will encourage you to reparent yourself and parent your kids with love compassion and unconditional connection to love and acceptance.