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In this deeply moving episode, we welcome Tim Cruickshank to discuss the multifaceted nature of grief. Tim, a qualified social worker and former probation officer, opens up about his journey through profound loss and emotional turmoil. His story is a testament to resilience and the power of seeking help.

Tim shares his experience of the end of his 20-year marriage, a period marked by deteriorating health and career challenges, which led him into a dark and lonely place. Through counselling and self-reflection, he found a path to recovery. He now serves on the board of trustees at Sheffield Mind, advocating for better mental health services, especially for men.

Tim's insights into grief, especially how it extends beyond losing loved ones to the end of significant relationships, are enlightening. He describes grief as the disruption of life's puzzle, where all the pieces are scrambled, leaving one to reassemble them without the guiding image.

This episode is particularly poignant as it resonates with my own experiences of loss and the struggle to understand and process grief truly. Tim's commanding presence and articulate reflections offer a space for listeners to explore their emotional landscapes, especially within the context of the male psyche and the experiences of black men growing up in London.

Join us in this powerful conversation and find clarity and understanding in your journey. Enjoy the episode.