Is comparison only about being better than or worse than someone else? Rather than always striving to be or have something better, might you pursue something different? Could comparison to a role model serve to inspire & help you grow?
Are you recognizing how far you have come -- or are you only measuring how much farther you yet have to go to reach your goal? Do you move out the goalpost each time a goal is met? How much is enough?
Do you have talent dysphoria? Learn to watch out for the comparison time warp. Overcome the urge to be a Goldilocks -- someone who is hyper-vigilantly comparing meaningless things, while neglecting to discern what matters most.
Expand how to think about & approach comparison, so that you can live more joyously & within your value system.
