In this episode of the Internet Money Podcast, host Jax Dwyer sits down with dating expert Sergio Chavez, also known as sergsteez, to uncover the secrets of attracting a high-quality girlfriend. If you've ever wondered how to level up your dating game, this is the episode for you. Sergio dives deep into what it means to become a "10 out of 10" man, emphasizing that it's not just about looks, money, or status, but the vibe you bring to every interaction.
0:35 - Defining a "10 out of 10" Man
1:00 - The Importance of Vibe
1:46 - Looks, Money, Status, and Game
2:16 - Improving Your Vibe and Charisma
5:14 - Building Conversational Skills
7:00 - Understanding Cold Approach
9:13 - Starting Small: The Art of Compliments
10:20 - Approaching Women During Daily Routines
11:56 - The ACII Framework for Approaching Women
12:19 - Carrying the Conversation After the Approach
14:53 - Using Observations and Personal Input in Conversations
15:11 - Making Assumptions to Build Rapport
19:25 - Carrying the Burden of the Conversation
21:50 - Identifying the Hook Point in a Cold Approach
23:34 - The Power of Insta-Dates
24:40 - Setting Up an Insta-Date
28:31 - Qualifying Your Lead: Understanding Her Availability
30:34 - Navigating the Insta-Date: Maintaining Attraction and Interest
33:24 - Teasing and Flirting: Building Attraction
38:39 - Going for the Kiss: When and How
43:36 - Bad Advice in the Dating Space
44:24 - Sergio's Viral Content Journey
52:02 - The Value of Organic Content Creation
58:10 - Cold Approach vs. Social Media DM
1:01:01 - Pursuing Health, Wealth, and Relationships
1:04:29 - Recommended Social Media Accounts for Self-Improvement
1:07:39 - Sergio's 30-Day Plan to Rebuild from Scratch
1:09:10 - Next Big Goals for Sergio Chavez (sergsteez)
1:09:43 - Where to Connect with Sergio Chavez (sergsteez)
Listen as Sergio breaks down his unique framework for improving your vibe and charisma, essential elements that go beyond the superficial. They discuss practical techniques for developing confidence, like the "talk forever" drill and the art of cold approach. Whether you're an agency owner looking to improve your social skills or someone just entering the dating scene, Sergio's insights will help you make meaningful connections.
Tune in for actionable advice on how to shift your mindset from seeking external validation to developing internal value. Learn how to master light, playful conversation, understand the importance of making assumptions in dialogue, and discover how to smoothly transition from a cold approach to an insta-date.
By the end of this episode, you'll have a toolkit of strategies to boost your confidence, enhance your communication skills, and attract the right kind of partner. Don't miss this chance to hear from one of the rising stars in the dating coaching world, Sergio Chavez!
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