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In this episode, Trevor, Nick, and Pragasen crack open a spicy question: are compliments honest signals or social grease, and when does critique actually help? The convo swerves from relationship dynamics and offense-taking at the gym to ad targeting, aging, and the economics of music in commercials—before landing on a Jazz Fest recap and a mini tour of Orlando pool halls.

### Topics Discussed:

- Compliments as social lubricant vs honest feedback

- The treadmill incident and calling out a friend’s derogatory comment on Chinese food

- The “amoeba relationship” idea and boundaries with significant others

- Ads using 90s music to target “you’re old now” vibes

- When critique helps in golf but not in style or work

- Casting people for their looks and the weirdness of being “perfect for the monster role”

### Orlando Spots Mentioned

- Sports Town – resurfaced pool tables, now linked with the English pub next door; liquor license incoming; Tasty Tuesday food trucks out back

- Saku Sauna & Massage

### Golden Nuggets

- Ask for critique on things that matter; skip drive-by opinions.

- Boundaries keep relationships from melting into one blob.

- Compliments feel good; specific, honest observations actually help.

### Timestamps

00:00 Do compliments help or just smooth things

02:22 Why we rarely say I don’t like your outfit

03:55 The treadmill incident and taking offense

08:27 I don’t like compliments but I’ll take a swing tip

10:06 Can you be honest about a friend’s style

12:28 Trevor on critique he’ll accept vs ignore

16:45 Compliments at shows vs sincere signals

20:15 Do you compliment your partner or keep it real

30:34 The ad rant music from your youth and age targeting

33:14 When grocery-store music means you’ve “made it”

39:05 Casting for looks and being the “monster guy”

43:14 Jazz Fest recap bands, vibes, turnout ~6k

46:29 Sports Town update liquor, pool, food trucks

49:26 Park Ave Derby pool table talk and service

### Where to Find Us Funklers?

Trevor — https://www.instagram.com/atomicchilisauce

Nick — https://www.instagram.com/orlandotrivia

Pragasen — https://www.instagram.com/talktopr

Amanda - https://www.instagram.com/intuitivemuse

Edd — https://www.instagram.com/eddsiu/