00:00 - The Power of Investing in Yourself
Jake opens the episode by sharing that he’s never gone wrong investing in personal development. He reflects on how these investments have always been worth it and how they became a foundation for building Enclave.
00:39 - Welcome to the Gathering
Travis introduces this special episode focused on The Gathering, Enclave’s inaugural event in Tucson. He also highlights the upcoming Only in Enclave event in Boulder, which will build on the spirit of connection and growth from Tucson.
02:55 - Marc's Background & The Birth of The Gathering
Marc shares his background in event creation, including how his experiences with 29,029 evolved into Enclave. He emphasizes the importance of sharing experiences with others and how it enriches personal growth.
Quote: “It’s who you do it with. The people you share the experience with make the story richer.” — Marc Hodulich
04:40 - The Importance of Nature
Marc explains why nature played a key role in making The Gathering different. Instead of the stale environment of typical conferences, Enclave events integrate outdoor activities like yoga, breathwork, and cold plunges, helping participants bond more deeply.
06:00 - The Power of Movement and Vulnerability
Jake discusses how movement opens up emotional connections. Walking with someone new while discussing complex topics created unique opportunities for connection and trust.
Quote: “Motion creates emotion.” — Jake Knight
08:20 - The Role of Facilitators
Jake introduces key facilitators, Bart Foster and Kristen Keffeler. Bart led group exercises, while Kristen brought expertise in Rising Gen families, facilitating discussions on topics like wealth dynamics and family relationships.
Quote: “The facilitators made it possible for Marc and me to be participants in our own gathering.” — Jake Knight
10:01 - Marc's Personal Takeaways
Marc reflects on how much he learned from others during The Gathering. Expecting to give more than he would receive, Marc found himself deeply inspired by the participants and their stories.
Quote: “The preconceived notion that maybe I wouldn’t gain as much as I would give was shattered.” — Marc Hodulich
13:00 - Optimizing Time
Jake shares insights from discussions about time management, particularly how participants reflected on optimizing time for what truly matters. As busy professionals and parents, this was a key takeaway for many.
14:08 - Participant Transformations
Marc shares how participants, initially hesitant, left the event feeling transformed and confident. The gathering gave them a renewed sense of purpose, ready to tackle personal and professional challenges.
16:33 - Letting Go of Control
Jake shares a lesson learned: “Suffering ends when you let go of the decisions you don’t have.” This reflection helped him and others focus on accepting situations beyond their control, showing up authentically, and letting go of their masks.
Quote: “Suffering ends when you let go of the decisions you don’t have.” — Jake Knight
19:06 - Curating the Right Group
Marc and Jake discuss how they carefully curated the group for The Gathering. They ensured attendees aligned with Enclave’s values, emphasizing a “no asshole policy” and building an environment of trust and meaningful connections.
23:21 - Fierce Independence and Authenticity
Marc and Jake reflect on how The Gathering stood apart from industry events filled with sponsors and logos. Without hidden agendas or pitches, the focus was entirely on people, growth, and relationships.
Quote: “The sole focus was on people—their development, relationships, and shared experience.” — Marc Hodulich
27:08 - Building Long-Lasting Bonds
Jake shares a story of how, in just two and a half days, participants formed deep, lasting friendships. He emphasizes how these connections continue to grow within the Enclave community.
28:16 - Investing in Yourself
Marc talks about the importance of investing in yourself, drawing from his own experiences. He explains how being part of a community like Enclave can provide valuable personal and professional growth.
Quote: “When you have it, you can’t imagine living without it.” — Marc Hodulich
31:51 - Outro: Upcoming Event in Boulder
Travis concludes by reminding listeners about the upcoming Only in Enclave event in Boulder, Colorado, on November 19th. He encourages listeners to visit joinenclave.com to learn more and secure their spot at the event.
