It’s time to get your flirt on! I am joined by two friends from the Denver non-monogamous community to chat about all things flirting - the good, the bad, the ugly, and 100 other things.
We had so much fun! Whether you want to see if you are as good a flirt as you think or simply not sure where to start - we’ve got you! We are going to cover:
-What makes us each good flirts.
-Top tips for getting started as a flirt.
-Improving your flirting skills.
-What not to do.
-Having fun no matter what.
🍷Do you want to flirt with me by buying me a glass of wine? Head over to my Patreon and do it now: https://www.patreon.com/c/janiceformichella
Flirting! Chapters:
1:30-Our personal flirting super powers.
5:00-What is flirting?
7:00-The dark side of being a good flirt.
9:45-Being authentically kind vs. flirting.
12:30-Our favorite ways to flirt.
15:00-Being a “safe space.”
17:00-The power of NOT telling stories.
18:00-Learing to read “queues.”
20:00-Being an intentional flirt.
22:00-The role of self-confidence in flirting.
22:50-Yup - eye contact is kind of important.
24:00-Showing vulnerability.
25:00-Being playful as adults.
26:00-How to use QUESTIONS to flirt.
29:00-Vetting/highlighting people.
30:00-What if it’s “a no?”
32:00-Toxic flirting behaviors.
33:00-Avoiding writing dating fantasies.
34:00-Flirting is not a means to an end…
35:00-Flirting to lift people up.
37:00-Is it bad to be “thirsty?”
39:00-How to “call up” someone.
40:00-It’s okay to pursue someone…if…
40:35-Andrew’s favorite dating story.
41:00-Yoni power! Penis power!
43:00-My eye/pussy connection.
44:00-Draining flirting energy.
45:00-What if they don’t flirt back?
48:00-Building reciprocal relationships.
49:00-You are happening to the world…not the other way around.
50:00-Taking vs. receiving.
50:50-Communicating expectations.
57:00-Back to not writing stories…
58:00-Our top flirting tips.
59:00-The power of small talk.
1:00-Body confidence.
1:05-Seeking to understand.
1:06-Where to meet people.
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Sex and the Solo Girl with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to improve their relationships with themselves and others. I believe that singlehood is a portal for opportunities in life and love. I also believe that regardless of its shape, love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships, and that all are valid.
As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe and inclusive space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a listener and a part of the show’s community.
