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A busybody is a person who meddles in the affairs of others. Sometimes this meddling is under the guise of “helping,” but usually the “help” is unwelcome and uninvited. They are oftentimes divisive, slanders, jealous, gloating from others crisis and seemingly downfall. They love to throw darts and take potshots! They always come with the "breaking news" about what their target is doing! They take someone's else's crisis spotlight and make it about them! Busybodies are often people who are dissatisfied with the level of drama in their own lives and gain satisfaction by becoming involved in the problems of other people. Gossip is usually a staple of every busybody, but it is usually camouflaged as a “prayer request” or given under the pretense of asking for advice.
The Bible has strong words for busybodies (2 Thessalonians 3:11; 1 Timothy 5:13). First Peter 4:15 warns us, “Make sure that none of you suffers as a murderer, or thief, or evildoer, or a troublesome meddler.” It is noteworthy that Peter lists meddling as prohibited right along with murder and theft. Busybodies within the church, often camouflage their nosey meddling as compassionate concern! The difference between meddling and concern, however, is whether or not the intrusion is beneficial or productive in the lives of others.
Some people have difficulty recognizing themselves as busybodies, so a few questions can aid in determining whether or not attempts to “help” are in fact meddling. A potential busybody should ask him/herself the following questions:
1. Is this any of my business?
2. Has God given me this assignment?
3. Am I qualified to involve myself with this?
4. Is my true motivation to bring help, or do I only want to feel needed?
5. How much of my “discussion” about the situation could be classified as gossip?
6. What was the result the last time I intruded in a situation that was not my problem?
7. Has my opinion been sought by those involved?
8. Am I motivated by love for this person or by a sense of my own importance?
9. Am I basing my “help” on Scripture or on my own opinion?
10. Do I respond with anger when my “advice” is not accepted or found to be flawed?
The answers to these questions can help us determine whether our involvement in the affairs of others is, in fact, meddling. And if we are we need to repent and come out of this sin before we die and be judged! Amen! 🎯 REPENT and BELIEVE and TURN back to God!
