Ever had someone screw up royally and somehow make you feel like the problem? Yeah, same. In this episode, Dr. Tracey Oppenheim shares how her former accountant (emphasis on former) gaslit her into feeling like an incompetent mess over his mistake. And guess what? It worked—at least for a minute. Enter Heather, serving up a much-needed reality check: “It wasn’t you, babe. It was HIM.” We unpack how shame is a favorite weapon of manipulators, why so many women avoid money and power (hint: deep conditioning), and how to flip the script so we’re not just surviving—we’re owning our financial confidence and using power for good. If you’ve ever felt small when it comes to money, get ready to take up space. Big energy only.