Today's interview with professional dominatrix Colette is about BDSM, female domination, and the alchemy of kink. We explore the deeper healing & transformative potential of BDSM through her unique philosophy that she has developed over nearly 20 years in the field.
In addition to being a dominatrix, Colette is also an educator/educatrix and leads a popular online course called MistressClass in which she guides hundreds of women into the world of BDSM by infusing her curriculum with her unique philosophy that helps women get intimate with their own desires as the key to accessing their deepest truth and ultimately their power.
What we cover:
(07:21) Definition of power
(10:18) Love & BDSM
(13:30) BDSM as a metaphor for life
(18:00) Psychological healing through kink
(20:24) Dissolving sexual shame
(21:25) Alchemizing your pain into power
(26:19) Finding the Third Path
(27:54) Getting her PhD in education
(29:48) The research of misconceptions
(31:52) Creating trust & safety
(33:13) Dissolving energy blocks
(36:21) Embodying goddess archetypes
(39:22) The role of presence
(41:53) Tools & skills from BDSM
(43:56) The importance of intuition
(47:03) Making fantasies come true
(49:22) Cultivating intimacy
(52:05) Truth as power
(55:18) The subtle energetics of BDSM
(58:52) Colette's spiritual practice
(01:06:26) Eradicating our collective shame
(01:10:21) Final invitation
Links & resources:
Colette's website
Colette's Instagram
