In this episode of Unguarded, Bec and Joe Smith open up about the evolving landscape of relationships, sparked by a fascinating New York Times article about a "polycule"—a 20-person web of interconnected relationships. They dive into what this unconventional setup means and whether it reflects a broader shift away from traditional monogamy.
As they chat, Bec and Joe don’t just analyze the article; they bring it back to their own lives, reflecting on their 12 years of marriage. They explore the big question: Is monogamy still relevant today? And more importantly, what does it mean to truly commit to one person for life? The conversation touches on self-worth and how so many people settle for less because they don’t see their own value.
The episode takes a personal turn as they share stories from their relationship. Bec talks about how she was drawn to Joe’s strength and stability—qualities she knew she needed in her life. Joe reflects on how crucial it is to be someone who pushes those around you to be better, rather than settling for less.
As they wrap up, Bec and Joe leave listeners with a heartfelt message: love and commitment aren’t just about sticking together—they’re about choosing each other every single day and working towards something greater together. This episode feels like a warm, honest conversation between friends about what it really means to build a deep, lasting connection with someone you love.
