Conduct a podcast interview with Cole Flanders for "The Family Table" series, discussing parenting and family life.
Key Takeaways
- Cole emphasizes intentional parenting, focusing on instilling concepts rather than just rules
- The Flanders family prioritizes Sabbath-keeping as a key tradition to pass down
- Cole balances demanding work as a Chick-fil-A operator with intentional family time
- Parenting resources like Paul David Tripp have significantly shaped their approach
Topics
Cole's Family Background
- Married to Alicia for 9+ years
- Two children: 4.5-year-old daughter Hazel and 17-month-old son Alden
- Cole views his role as head of household, aiming to model Christ-like love
Family Traditions and Bonding
- Sunday morning "muffin makers" tradition with daughter
- Intentional about creating special moments, like chasing/playing after watering flowers
- Prioritize Sabbath-keeping on Sundays for family time and rest
Parenting Philosophy
- Focus on teaching concepts rather than just rules (e.g. respecting authority vs. specific "don't do X")
- Strive for consistency in parenting approach, even during vacations
- Openly discuss and admit parental mistakes/sins to children
- The ultimate goal is children's relationship with Christ, not just worldly success
Work-Life Balance
- Navigated challenges during the Chick-fil-A leadership program while starting a family
- Intentionally chose home close to new store (1/3 mile) to maximize family time
- Recognize the intense time demands of the new store, but plan strategically as a couple
Parenting Resources
- Paul David Tripp's materials are highly influential
- Impactful video on long-term parenting goals (mission field vs. "successful" life)
Advice for New Parents
- Remember children ultimately belong to God, not parents
- Admit weaknesses/mistakes to children, modeling need for Jesus
Next Steps
- Cole to open new Chick-fil-A store in December
- Continue intentional family time during the demanding store opening period
- Maintain Sabbath-keeping tradition in a new location
