Cam and Elle discuss the wild world of exes… because Elle got a few texts. 👀
Should we talk to exes? Why do they circle back? Would you give closure if asked?
We dive into these questions, the piping hot tea of recent reach outs, and watch Cam have a coming-to-Jesus moment where he realizes that he was projecting some of his trust issues onto Elle. HOW JUICY!
Fun news: We're each launching positive dating communities to provide a lifeline to hope and good advice on your journey to love. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below.
Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀
Our communities:
✨ Elle’s dating community for women: https://stan.store/ellebeecher
✨ Cam’s dating community for men: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan
✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning
✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com
More from us:
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✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan
Who are these people? 👀
Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning.
Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (127 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (100 so far), leads a positive dating community for women, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks.
💌 CHAPTERS
0:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About Exes
3:33 How Does Elle Feel About Cam Doing This?
6:53 Would You Give Closure If They Asked?
9:53 Why Exes Circle Back
15:19 Cam’s Ex Reaches Out
17:43 Elle Didn’t Realize That People Don’t Realize The Door Is Closed
22:51 Elle Gets A Text
28:03 Indirectness = Ick
30:47 Why Do Men Reach Out To Exes?
34:46 Being Real About Cam’s Ex
44:07 Let’s Clarify Intentions
49:48 Cam’s Message For Guys In The DMs
52:13 Announcements & Please Support Us!
