In this solo episode of Similarly Different, I’m talking about the lifelong lesson of saying no without guilt, and the real work it takes to let go of people-pleasing tendencies.
If you’ve ever felt the weight of being misunderstood, feared disappointing others, or constantly overcommitted to avoid uncomfortable conversations, this one’s for you! I open up about the messy middle of learning to set boundaries, why I used to say yes out of fear, and how protecting your peace isn’t selfish... it’s self-respect.
We also hear from a listener who asked about how to turn down a second date without ghosting or feeling like the bad guy. Spoiler: Honoring your gut is not mean, it’s necessary!
✨ Let me know in the comments: Where in your life do you need to say no more often?
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