In this quick Supermom Short, Amy Grace explores the hidden trap of toxic independence—the belief that “real” supermoms should handle it all alone. Drawing from her own post-surgery experience, Amy shares how this mindset leads to burnout, resentment, and feeling disconnected from the people you love.
You’ll learn why society’s “do it all” ideal is harmful, how to spot your own internal “villain voice,” and practical steps to start asking for help without guilt. From tiny favors to bigger support, Amy offers a gentle challenge to shift your perspective: needing help isn’t a weakness—it’s a superpower.
💡 Key Takeaways
Toxic independence tricks you into thinking asking for help means you’ve failed.
Many moms internalize unrealistic “do it all” expectations from society and themselves.
Refusing help increases stress, exhaustion, and feelings of inadequacy.
Community care was the norm for most of human history—we were never meant to parent in isolation.
Asking for help strengthens relationships and builds a healthier home environment.
Start with small, non-urgent requests and be specific about what you need.
Your worth as a mom is not tied to doing everything yourself.
🗣️ Key Quotes
“Your worth as a mother is not tied to your ability to do absolutely everything all by yourself.” – Amy Grace
“Needing help is not a weakness, it’s a superpower.” – Amy Grace
“We were never meant to do motherhood in isolation—it’s time to bring back community care.” – Amy Grace
“That inner villain voice says you should be able to handle it all—tell it to be quiet.” – Amy Grace
🔗 Resources Mentioned
The Master List for Moms – A free tool to help you identify all the things that are on your plate, including tasks you can delegate.
About Your Host:
Amy Grace is the heart behind Everyday Supermoms, a podcast that inspires and empowers mothers by sharing diverse stories of resilience and connection. As a licensed therapist, she supports moms through all stages of motherhood with transformative therapy intensives and signature courses like The Motherhood Mindset Reset and Create Your Own Motherhood. A mom of six, Amy draws from her own journey—from single parenting to blended families—to create a community where mothers can embrace their unique paths with confidence and grace.
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